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Jul 23, 2024
Popular Internet Aesthetics - Which One Are You?
Last week I talked about "essences" and how they help you pinpoint your style even more. Once you have an idea of your own essences, you...
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Jul 19, 2024
What Are Your "Essences?"
If you're a regular on the Kibbe internet boards, you've probably heard the term "essence" thrown around. "I'm a Soft Classic with...
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Jul 16, 2024
Earrings for Naturals
Both Flamboyant and Soft Naturals would rock these! This is one of those rare occasions where you'll find me recommending something I...
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Jul 8, 2024
Flamboyant Gamine Denim Jacket
Flamboyant Gamine I spent a lot of money on a denim jacket last year and I regret not a penny of it. For my lifestyle, it's freaking...
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Jul 4, 2024
Both Romantics: Shirred Tank Top
Romantics everywhere are rejoicing that fashion's current silhouette falls at the natural waist! This piece is lovely layered or on its...
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Jul 2, 2024
Should You Wear Gold Or Silver Jewelry?
It's fairly common knowledge that Autumn and Spring are the warm seasons, and wear gold; while Summer and Winter are the cool seasons,...
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Jun 27, 2024
Jeans for the Soft Dramatic
Keep an eye on these ones, because they sell out fast - a clear sign that they're catering to an underserved market! A high, cinched...
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Jun 24, 2024
Silk Tank Top
Soft Natural | Soft Classic Because it's hot, y'all. And I'm in Texas. Send help. Hot Fudge for True Autumn, Lava Smoke for True Summer,...
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Jun 20, 2024
Soft Classic: Casual Summer Dress. Also: Now Offering Consulting Services!
A client of mine - who also happens to be my beloved younger sister! - recently had a baby and said the number one most common refrain...
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Jun 6, 2024
Soft Natural: A Post-Baby Body Swimsuit
For those of us who have an upcoming beach trip but absolutely no intention of going near a bikini.
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May 24, 2024
Flamboyant Gamine: Summer Sweater
Both Gamines do layering very well, so a piece like this that can be worn either by itself or layered over another shirt is a real closet...
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May 16, 2024
"I'm having some difficulty finding a daytime summer dress for my sister's baby shower next month. Any suggestions?"
Absolutely! This was posted on a Soft Autumn forum, so I've listed the soft Autumn options for each dress in the captions. I stuck to a...
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May 14, 2024
An Alternative To The Gamine Chop
Gamines are famous for their ability to rock a pixie cut - so much so that it's become almost a rite of passage for them, upon finding...
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May 7, 2024
The Father's Day Gift He Will Actually Think Is Cool
This cap has a lot of names. I've always heard it called the Flat Cap but it also goes as the Ivy Cap, Newsboy Cap, and - lately - the...
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May 4, 2024
Versatile Mother's Day Gift: A Square Silk Scarf
The best gift is the small luxury they would never buy for themselves.
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Apr 27, 2024
What Is The Soft Natural Stereotype? (It's Actually Pretty Cool)
Classics are often stereotyped as Elite/Old Money, Romantics as the Seductress...so what stereotype is associated with Soft Naturals? (I...
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Apr 23, 2024
Flamboyant Natural: T-Shirt Dress. Also Some Advice For Post-Baby Style
This dress is adorable for all sorts of occasions, but I'm buying it specifically for my pregnant sister because I remember the post-baby...
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Apr 19, 2024
Soft Natural Staple: the Cropped Kimono
My summertime uniform is shorts and a tank top, with a cropped kimono to keep the sun off my shoulders. I don't have a closet full of...
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Apr 15, 2024
Soft Gamine: Floral Graphic Tee
Ack this is so beautiful. Soft Gamines, enjoy this one for me. Would this work for a Soft Classic? Yes. The fit would be flattering...
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